A Guide to Understanding Your Partner’s Love Language

five love languages


We all want to feel loved. It's a basic human need that we all share. And when it comes to love, we often want to know how to express it in the best way possible. That's where love languages come in. According to Dr. Gary Chapman, there are five love languages: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. In this blog post, we'll explore what each love language means and how you can start using them in your own life!


  • Words of Affirmation: Words of affirmation are all about praising and affirming your partner in a positive way. This could be as simple as saying "I love you," or expressing how much you appreciate them for doing something. It’s best to avoid criticism or judgment when using words of affirmation - instead, focus on being encouraging and supportive.
  • Quality Time: Quality time is all about spending focused, uninterrupted time with your partner. This could mean going on a date night or simply sitting down to talk and catch up on each other’s day. The key here is to really focus on the conversation and really be present - avoid using phones or other distractions when you’re spending quality time together. 
  • Receiving Gifts: Receiving gifts is all about expressing your love for someone through tangible items. This could be as simple as buying them a small gift or sending them something special - it doesn't have to be expensive! The key here is to really think about what your partner would appreciate and what would make them feel special.
  • Acts of Service: Acts of service are all about doing something for your partner that shows you care. This could be as simple as making their favourite meal or taking out the rubbish without being asked. The key here is to think about what your partner needs and then take the initiative to do it. 
  • Physical Touch: Physical touch is all about expressing your love through physical contact. This could be holding hands, hugging or kissing - whatever it is that communicates love and affection to your partner. The key here is to make sure you’re both comfortable with the level of physical contact and respect each other’s boundaries.


Learning to understand and use your partner’s love language is an important part of creating a healthy relationship. It can help you express your feelings in ways that your partner will truly appreciate and understand. So take some time to really think about what type of love language your partner speaks - it may just be the key to unlocking a deeper connection and more meaningful moments with your loved one. 

Our date boxes are perfect for all 5 love languages. We have a range of themes available to suit a range of interests.