Simple Ways to Boost Intimacy during Date Night

Tips and ideas on what to do in the bedroom to spice things up


A healthy relationship is built upon a foundation of trust, communication and intimacy. But sometimes, couples can fall into a rut and need to reignite the passion that once existed (especially after kids). Intimacy can look different for everyone. It might be holding hands while out at dinner; it could be sharing a long-winding conversation over drinks. However, one thing is for sure, spicing things up during date night can help you feel closer to your partner. This blog post outlines some straightforward ways to initiate intimacy during date night and some bedroom activities to add a dash of excitement.

1. Touch and Physical Connection

Human touch is vital for emotional well-being; it helps us feel comforted, secure, and loved. As such, it’s critical to engage in physical touch with your partner, even if it feels just a tad bit awkward. Hold hands while walking, sit closely to one another on a bench while taking in the view, or cuddle in front of a fireplace. These simple actions help to make your partner feel seen, valued and appreciated.

2. Engage in Fun Activities Together

Another great way to initiate intimacy during date night is by engaging in fun activities together. It could be as simple as cooking dinner together or taking a painting class. Trying new things together creates new and exciting experiences that bring you closer as a couple. When you enjoy activities with your partner, it helps to increase the emotional connection and helps you build a sense of appreciation for each other.

3. Communication is Key

Communication is the lifeblood of relationships. Take time to communicate with each other about what you find attractive or unappealing. Open communication is vital in building intimacy, and it helps partners to connect at a deeper level. Talk openly and honestly about your feelings, and listen to what your partner has to say. Doing this sets the stage for more profound intimacy by creating an open, trusting partnership.

4. Set the Mood in the Bedroom

Spicing things up in the bedroom can add a level of excitement to an already strong relationship. Talk with your partner about creating a romantic ambiance by lighting candles or playing soothing music. You can also explore different avenues of physical intimacy such as massage, kinky sex, or role-playing. The most important thing is that both parties are on board with the activities. Intimacy is about exploring your partner's needs and desires while respecting boundaries.

5. Encourage Affectionate Touch

When engaging in physical touch, it's easy to go through the motions, but it's important to encourage more affectionate touch. Holding hands or cuddling while watching a movie might feel routine, but if you show a little affection during those moments, it increases intimacy levels. Looking into your partner's eyes and telling them what they mean to you while holding their hands can be a powerful expression of love.

By following these tips, you and your partner will enjoy a deeper level of closeness, appreciation, and love.